Mid-Missouri same-sex couple enjoys married life

4 years 10 months 3 weeks ago Tuesday, July 07 2015 Jul 7, 2015 Tuesday, July 07, 2015 11:08:17 PM CDT July 07, 2015 in News
By: Jacob Jones, KOMU 8 Reporter
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COLUMBIA - Boone County has issued 12 marriage licenses to same-sex couples in the 12 days since the Supreme Court ruling.

KOMU 8 News brought you coverage of Boone County's first same-sex marriage of Sarah Perry and Beth Perrin. 

"Having been together for 17 years, marriage was a step we couldn't take," Perry said. "So we hadn't really talked about it, but it just seemed right."

Perrin said she sent Perry a text after the ruling was announced and asked if she could step away from work to go apply and get their marriage license. 

When asked what had changed since they said their vows, both answered with the same response: "Not much."

"It's more the being able to," Perry said. "Just to be able to be legally married, to be able to introduce her as my 'wife.'"

Perrin said, "It legitimizes our relationship. We've been together for 17 years, and now it's officially recognized. So that's important."

On the day of their marriage, the couple walked from the Recorder of Deeds office to the county courthouse, where judges were on stand-by to perform any impromptu ceremonies, like theirs. 

Governor Jay Nixon signed an executive order Tuesday directing Missouri local governments to comply with the Supreme Court's ruling and take all measures necessary steps toward offering marriage licenses to same-sex couples. 

Cole and Callaway counties have issued one license each to same-sex couples. Randolph and Moniteau counties are prepared for applications but have not received any to date. 

Perry and Perrin said they plan on having a religious ceremony at Unity in Columbia, a church both were involved in prior to meeting. It's actually how they met. 

"I was new to town and was familiar with Unity, and there was one here in town on 8th street, so I went in and attended for a few weeks," Perrin said. "They had a pot lock at lunch one day, and there was this fabulous spicy black bean salad, and being from Texas I like it spicy. So I asked, 'Who made this?'"

It was Perry's recipe. 

"I asked for the recipe," Perrin said. "Well I had to ask her for it probably four or five times, and I finally got the recipe, and her."

Reverend Sandra Butler of Unity said the couple has been active within the church, which is founded on service to all community members.

"The mission overall is one of inclusivity," Butler said. "It's a mission that has five principles, basically, our foundational piece is prayer. We have been around for over a hundred years, and Unity of Columbia has been around for over 40 years."

Perry said, "It's a place where we both feel comfortable."

The Supreme Court ruling has a 25 day window to allow for procedural changes before all municipalities must offer marriage licenses to same-sex couples. That window ends July 20. 

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